Day 4 – Happiness Jar Project

Cannot believe that it is Day 4 of the Happiness Jar Project! So far, so good! So many times I start things with great intentions and get off track before I know. But this one project means so much to me.

Why? Well, if you have followed my blog for the last year, you will know that I have been on a journey of very painful self discovery. It’s been a hard journey, to be sure, but one that has brought me lessons that have changed my life.

My jar has three happiness notes because I haven’t written Day 4 yet. I’ll do that when I go to bed. One thing that is making me happy are the friends I have on Facebook and Twitter. It is amazing how many people are there that I care about and that care about me – even my alter ego!

There is still time to join me on this project! It is a challenge, but anything worth doing is a challenge! So, before I go to bed, I want to encourage my readers to try this.

Can you? Who know? But what I do know is that focusing on moments of happiness even for just a few minutes – long enough to write a note – changes my whole perspective on my day. No matter what has happened, just thinking of the happy things during the day makes a difference.

I guess my question now is – why wouldn’t I want to do this? Why not you? It does take some courage. After all, you are consciously making a change.

Go for it! You won’t regret it!

Day 2 – Happiness Jar Project

Day Two of my Happiness Jar Project!

Last night, I almost forgot – and on the first night! As I lay my head on my pillow, looking forward to going to sleep, a light bulb lit bright above my head! Omigosh! I gotta write my happiness moment down! So, I sprang up and got my little mini-tablet and pen, and proceeded to reflect on my day.

There were many moments during the first day of the year that qualified as happiness moments, but one stood out. I am blessed with friends, but I have made some incredible online friends in the process of marketing my wellness business and my books and writing. Those once again proved to me that no matter where we are, those we meet in person or online, are precious! For that I am grateful and felt great happiness!

So, this second day of the year? I already wrote my happiness moment. Tonight it was easy. Seeing joy, simple joy, in my loved one’s eyes brought me happiness today. It is these simple moments that bring me happiness. Too often sadness and apathy are in those eyes, but today, there was real excitement. That spark I fell in love with so many years ago was re-kindled.

How is your Happiness Jar Project going? I think I am really enjoying this process! Join me! Get your Joy on!

 

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Happiness Jar Project

I came across a Facebook post by Elizabeth Gilbert, author of Eat, Pray, Love, yesterday about her Happiness Jar Project. In it, she wrote about re-introducing her followers and fans to the idea of the project. As a huge fan of Elizabeth Gilbert, and as someone who is always searching for ways to grasp keeping joy and happiness in my life, I was intrigued.

So I searched for others that had participated and the concept. I couldn’t access her website, but I saw for myself how powerful this one little act could be in my life. I am one who, when I discover something like this, I jump in with both feet full on! Being who I am, I posted on Facebook myself for others who wanted to join me in this.

Within just a few minutes, five of some of my good friends said, “I’M IN!” I created a Facebook Group called The Happiness Jar – Jar of Joy and added these five incredible women as members. The intention was to start today, January 1, 2015.

The group is up and running and I have posted my first post with a picture of my own happiness jar. I hope the rest of the women post pictures of theirs as well, but I’m in this. Today, I created a little altar by my bedside as a way to end each evening with a prayer, intention, and remembering that one small thing from the day of whatever brought me happiness that day.

What is so important about this? No matter what kind of day I have had, I know that there has to be something that is a happiness possibility. And by writing this moment, this even, this one thing on a piece of paper and putting in in my jar, I go to bed on a note of happiness and joy! Instead of going to bed focused on what went wrong that day? I go to bed focused on what went right!

As I write this to share on my blog, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, and I think Pinterest, I am excited to share yet another journey with my readers here. And I am so blessed that I have found an author, Elizabeth Gilbert, who has become one of my own personal influential people in my life. I do not know her personally, nor have I ever had contact with her, but her insight and her humanness and the way she shares a part of herself with her readers and fans have influenced my own writing.

I am leaving The Happiness Jar – Jar of Joy Facebook Group open until the end of the month so that anyone who wants to join in can. It’s never too late!

The concept? Take a jar to designate as your Happiness Jar. Each evening, write one thing or event that brought you happiness that day and put it in the jar. On those days that just are not that great? Take one out and read it – focus on it – smile and say thank you! At the end of the year, take the time to read each one and see just how far you have come in the year. You could make a collage, paste in a journal, or put them in a box with the year on it for safe keeping. Some families have even made Christmas decorations out of them. I haven’t decided what I will do with them, but it will be something that is meaningful!

I am so looking forward to sharing this journal with you here on Dancing Naked. Feel free to join me on Facebook and share your impressions. I think today’s bit of happiness is being able to write this and share with my friends!

Oh, and here is my Happiness Jar Altar!

happiness Jar altar