Happiness Moments – Dig Deep!

When I took on the Happiness Jar Project, I really thought it would be a breeze! And every intention to write daily about it was, as they say, paved with gold!

Day 17 already, and my jar has exactly 16 little notes of happiness in it. I do want to share that this project is not little by any means, and there already have been days that I had to dig deep to find a moment of Happiness. Really deep!

I’ve even had days that I went to bed, looked at the jar, smiled and turned off the light. Screech! So, this is how my mind works.

“I need to find something,” I think.

“Right, and what would you say?” says my little devil on my shoulder.

“Well, there has to be something. It wasn’t a total day missed, right?”

“Uh, huh, sure! Look at what happened! First, you …”

“STOP! Hold on! But, there were good things.” Picture here a massive light bulb going on over my head – a blinding LED light bulb! The bedside light goes on. I get my trusty little note pad with the R on top, grab my pen, tear off a sheet of paper, and …..

Just like that! I write a Happiness Moment! Hah! Take that! Remember that beautiful little mum that showed its head this afternoon when all the other mum plants looked dead. And it was purple! My favorite color! There one moment of Happiness, no matter how small, to write down and put in my Happiness Jar.

And the light goes off, I snuggle into my pillow, breathe a deep sigh, and drift off to dream happy and contented.

And that, my friends is what the Happiness Jar Project is all about. No matter what has happened in one given day, there is always something – even one little something – that brings happiness. Thinking about it and writing it down changes the attitude. Keeps me focused on watching for Happiness Moments.

This chance to write to you guys, my readers, is one of my greatest moments of Happiness. I trust it is one of yours too!

Day 4 – Happiness Jar Project

Cannot believe that it is Day 4 of the Happiness Jar Project! So far, so good! So many times I start things with great intentions and get off track before I know. But this one project means so much to me.

Why? Well, if you have followed my blog for the last year, you will know that I have been on a journey of very painful self discovery. It’s been a hard journey, to be sure, but one that has brought me lessons that have changed my life.

My jar has three happiness notes because I haven’t written Day 4 yet. I’ll do that when I go to bed. One thing that is making me happy are the friends I have on Facebook and Twitter. It is amazing how many people are there that I care about and that care about me – even my alter ego!

There is still time to join me on this project! It is a challenge, but anything worth doing is a challenge! So, before I go to bed, I want to encourage my readers to try this.

Can you? Who know? But what I do know is that focusing on moments of happiness even for just a few minutes – long enough to write a note – changes my whole perspective on my day. No matter what has happened, just thinking of the happy things during the day makes a difference.

I guess my question now is – why wouldn’t I want to do this? Why not you? It does take some courage. After all, you are consciously making a change.

Go for it! You won’t regret it!

Day 2 – Happiness Jar Project

Day Two of my Happiness Jar Project!

Last night, I almost forgot – and on the first night! As I lay my head on my pillow, looking forward to going to sleep, a light bulb lit bright above my head! Omigosh! I gotta write my happiness moment down! So, I sprang up and got my little mini-tablet and pen, and proceeded to reflect on my day.

There were many moments during the first day of the year that qualified as happiness moments, but one stood out. I am blessed with friends, but I have made some incredible online friends in the process of marketing my wellness business and my books and writing. Those once again proved to me that no matter where we are, those we meet in person or online, are precious! For that I am grateful and felt great happiness!

So, this second day of the year? I already wrote my happiness moment. Tonight it was easy. Seeing joy, simple joy, in my loved one’s eyes brought me happiness today. It is these simple moments that bring me happiness. Too often sadness and apathy are in those eyes, but today, there was real excitement. That spark I fell in love with so many years ago was re-kindled.

How is your Happiness Jar Project going? I think I am really enjoying this process! Join me! Get your Joy on!

 

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