Music for the Day – Say You Will by Foreigner
Links – http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/foreigner/sayyouwill.html
So many people I know are going through relationship issues right now. I am sure that there is a real energetic reason, and I do believe that there is a lot to be said about the mindset of consciousness right now. We, as humans, are always looking for the bigger and better, and we are a throw-away society.
I saw a Facebook meme today that said, “If a light bulb is broken, you don’t buy a new house. You fix the light bulb.” Well, many light bulbs in relationships are broken right now. There is no secret that relationships are hard, and there are times when both partners seem to be on completely different pages and opposite corners. Most of the time, it is due to a lack of communication with each other and letting real life issues get in the way of maintaining the relationship. And it doesn’t happen overnight. Granted that there are times when both have just grown apart and the relationship has run its course. But if the relationship is fixable and there is hope, then fix the light bulb!
It is important to take a good hard look at what qualities drew you to your partner. Are they still there? Or are they hidden under some other issue that has risen? What about you? What mindset are you bringing to the table? Has life created what is impossible to rise above? Or are you just going through a change of attitude and lack of real communication? Have you both just gotten used to each other and don’t feel the need to romance and say what you feel?
How much have you invested in the relationship? Does it seem one sided? A lot of questions to answer, but they are all important ones. They are questions that are well worth the time to ask and answer for yourself before making a decision about your relationship. Only you and your partner can know for sure what is right or wrong for you both. No one else can tell you what the best course is, but know for sure that the time invested in working through your own inner thoughts is well worth it.
Maybe you are at a crossroads in this and need to make up your mind. This song, of course, speaks of the desperateness a partner feels when the other is unsure, but it can speak for you in any situation. Are you where you need and want to be? What can be done? Whatever decision is made, make sure it is your decision and not someone else’s. Make sure that you are listening to your own inner guidance. To do otherwise would be selling yourself short.
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